My Dear John Letter


Obviously, Father's Day was celebrated this past weekend. Probably a lot of cookouts occurring everywhere. Good times had by all! 

I took the time to create a letter to my children, a letter that expressed the true sentiment of the day. Too often we get caught up in the gift-giving aspect of the day and forget what the day is really about. What follows is my letter to my children. 

Dear John, Scott, and Lydia, 

I am so blessed to call you my children. Though Sunday, to me, is one of the Hallmark holidays. I must admit, that over the years, it has become one of the most important days of the year to me. 

I know you boys have families of your own now, and obligations that draw on your time, but I want you to know that your mother and I, cherish the times we get to spend together. 

Lydia, you are my princess and the apple of my eye. Although you are becoming a young woman, and much too fast, before my eyes. I am grateful for your maturity. 

I realize that I have fewer of these moments left than I have to enjoy, and I want you all to know that I have made peace with that. Regardless of how old you get, you will always remain my children. And Abby and Jerica, as my son's wives, I consider you my daughters. I know you have fathers, and I am not trying to take their place. But know that I am always here for you. God gave you all to me as blessings in my life. Your presence has made my life richer, and full of joy, I am proud of my legacy. Thank you. 

Perhaps we should start a new tradition. One in which the father, instead of getting gifts, gives them to each of his children. 

Fatherhood is its own gift. A gift that if you are lucky, will last your lifetime, and be one that keeps giving to you, over and over. Its memories are priceless!

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